My Letter To You: Why You’re Failing (Yes, I get a bit harsh)…

This letter is VERY serious and if you’re serious about changing your life, you need take 2 minutes to read it. Period.

So, it’s been a while since I’ve written a blog post like this, but that’s because I’m working HARD in both business and my personal life.

With that being said, I do apologize for the lack of blog posts and communication.

I plan on writing more posts, sending you more inspiring and profitable information and general “feel good” messages for FREE.

So to kick off my blog starting to get more active. I had an idea.

Every day, in both my personal and support inbox, we get HUNDREDS of emails from students. These emails go from big THANK YOU’s to ones that are almost “begging” for my help (and some very elaborate and creative ones too)!

So recently, I started to respond to a few, as I do feel your pain, but decided that it may better if I just wrote an “open letter.”

This letter applies to EVERYONE. Regardless of if you’re happy in life, a giant success or constantly failing..

My Open Letter to You – Change How You Think

Dear student,

I REALLY appreciate all the emails you’ve sent me. Even though many times, the emails are not sent with the appropriate “attitude” – I still appreciate reading them and I definitely sympathize (but there’s always a but)…

Yes, when you email me about your life, your situations and your pain, I DO read them.

Trust me, you’re not the first to send them and of course you’ll never be the last, I understand that. Don’t forget, there was a day in my life that I sat in your shoes as well.

You see, in the past, I’ve reached out to HELP YOU. I’ve sent you courses, personal advice and even gotten on phone calls with some.

But purely honestly, the sad thing is that everyone is always FIRST to complain, cry, moan and groan – however when you’re having good days, rarely do people write to say “Thank you” or share the good news.

You can imagine how troubling and trying it becomes to just read one negative letter after another!

With my recent offer, Marketing With Anik, I did something CRAZY. That offer was with YOU in mind. For an absolutely CRAZY price, I offered you 15 weeks of hand held coaching with me!

Why did I do it? Because I wanted to HELP. I wanted to MAKE A DIFFERENCE. How much money do you REALLY think I could have made doing that?

Honestly, I could have charged $2,000 or MORE and would have been able to make a lot more money for my time…

BUT…I kept it affordable because I wanted to help. It was the best way for me to reach out to the masses and help address the problems many of you are facing.

Now.. I’m a person who speaks there mind and so I will do that here again. What I’m about to say may sound hurtful, it’s not. I’m only saying it with YOU in mind and for your own good. Hey, sometimes a teacher, an advisor has to be HARSH. Sometimes we all need that kick in the butt to put our course right.

We’re all adults so we don’t need to be cradled…and I don’t plan on doing that.

So here’s the point of this message…(here comes the harshness)

Instead of wasting your time and energy in emailing me about WHY or WHAT happened in your life. Instead of giving me a big list of reasons as to why you canNOT succeed, I need to see a change there.  Trust me, without this change, you’re NOT going to see your life turn-around. No matter how many courses I give you or even if I come live with you in your own house, nothing will change.

So, here’s what you need to do:

You need to STOP thinking about all the reasons why you cannot do something. You need to STOP listing out all the misfortunes in your life. Basically, you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and having a pity party.

I know…I know, that’s harsh, but sorry – it’s the truth.

See, so many of you think that my life is “perfect?”  If (even today) I began to list out all the obstacles, problems and stresses in my life, I could make most heads spin – I mean I’m on my death bed almost every 8 months bleeding half to death (yes, true story). But guess what, I never do that.

Why?

Because I don’t want to waste my own time dwelling on negative energy. Her’s why…

EVERYTHING you do in your life is based around your MIND. The human mind is a powerful thing.

NO ONE is too “dumb” or “stupid” to do what I do online. The difference between YOU and ME is I pour my heart and soul into my work to make sure I succeed. I focus all my energies only on the things that HELP me, not hurt me. I never, ever, even when I’m lying on the hospital bed bleeding, let my mind accept failure.

Failure is never even an OPTION for me – I actually don’t know what it is – that’s how adamantly against it I am…

So, over the next coming days, I’m going to POUR out my MIND secrets on how to succeed. Why? Because no matter HOW many courses I give you, videos I give you or advice I give you – it’s all a waste. It’s all a waste unless your mind is right.

Today, I want you to take a moment and read up on a concept I’m a FIRM believer of:  It’s called “Law of Attraction.” 

Here’s the direct Wikipedia link:   http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Law_of_attraction

Simply put in simple terms – Your mind drives your success or your failures. If you believe in positive thoughts and your results WILL be positive. You need to focus on the GOAL instead of the problem and THAT is the main issue I notice in my students these days.

It’s powerful – take a few mins to head over to wikipedia and read about it.

I hope you can make the changes in your mind to accommodate this new found knowledge.

Your Coach & Friend,

Anik Singal

 

**SIDE NOTE: Those asking about support/product access issues etc: Our support email has been the same forever: support@affiliateclassroom.com . We have 24 hours in a day in which SOMEONE is sitting there waiting for your requests. Thanks. 

Weekend Rant: 5 Tips for YOUR success…

As we roll into this weekend ,I wanted to share with you a quick 5 tips that can help you get started online or help BUILD your online business.

You know the HARDEST part of getting started online or continuing your success online starts with TAKING ACTION.

We find that our daily lives can EASILY interfere with our progress along with the distractions.

So I’ve created a list of things you should do that really can help you avoid distractions.
This list is NOT in any order, just a quick list to help you take action.

1. Try to check emails at 2 or 3 EXACT times a day and no other time. (This includes smartphones)

2. FOCUS on just ONE item at a time. It’s very common to get sidetracked because we spread ourselves thin.

3. SET TIME for your projects. Put yourself on a schedule in which you dedicate that EXACT time for whatever project you’re working on.

4. TAKE ACTION. You’ll NEVER get anywhere if all you do is buy products or continue reading and learning. What you need to do sometimes is just DIVE right in. That means you may make mistakes, but that’s the BEST way to learn.

5. GET RID OF NEGATIVITY. Sometimes the reason for our failure revolves around the energy or people around us. If you find someone/something is slowing you down, then get away from it.

Have a FANTASTIC weekend!